So Drake has been over the legal dating age for quite a while. We have encouraged him again and again to take the leap and go out with a young lady, to no avail.
With Homecoming season upon us, we had been trying to gear Drake up quite a while in advance to ask someone to the dance. We thought he might be willing to go with longtime friend Noah who was also feeling apprehensive to jump into the dating pool. Come to find out, Noah was going to be gone on a golf trip over Homecoming weekend, so we had kind of dropped the pressure on Drake to go since we wanted him to have the security of a group for his first dating adventure.
The day of Homecoming arrived, and Theo, Drake and I attended the city parade together. The other boys were in the parade with the cross-country teams. While we were watching, we told Drake that he had to at least go to the football game. Drake tends to like to hang around at home most of the time. Since this is his senior year, we felt like we had to get more aggressive in getting him to participate in social activities. He fussed, but finally said he would go to the game.
Once we were home, I settled in for a quiet night of TV and Theo was chatting on the phone with someone. Minutes before the game was scheduled to start, Drake approached me and asked if he could take the Jeep to the game. I told him that he would have to ask his dad. Since Theo was on the phone, Drake continued to press me on the issue. Getting a little exasperated, I asked Drake why it was such a big deal if he took the Jeep rather than the old truck he usually drives. With a slight grin on his face, he quietly told me that he "forgot" to tell me that he had a date that night! I literally screamed, "WHAT"? Drake hastily explained that he had asked someone and that he had made plans to pick her up for the game and that he would be late if he didn't get going soon. That little snake knew he was going to the game all along! I don't know if he would have even told me about his date if he hadn't needed to ask for the car! In utter shock, I sent him on his way.
Theo finally got off the phone so I could relate the sudden jarring turn of events. We were both stunned. I quickly gathered my wits and called the parents of the said date (we are good friends). We had quite the interesting conversation as each of us pieced together how this all came about. Apparently Drake had asked her just a day before via Facebook message! Oh Mylanta! I asked her mother if she even had a dress. She assured me that she could wear one that had belonged to a cousin. Normally they wouldn't allow her to go on a single date, but since they have known each other basically since the second grade and there was no romantic anything, they relented. Her dad even made the comment, "It's just Drake. She could take him".
When Drake returned from the game, there was more grilling from us since the initial shock had worn off. Drake actually ran to the store to purchase himself a dress shirt since he didn't want to wear one of his usual white ones. While he was out, I got some flowers for his lovely date knowing that he had no clue in these matters. I also got the green light from his date's mom to come over and get pictures at their house before they left for the dance. It all happened so fast.
We told Drake that he should probably make some plans if the dance wasn't that great. He has been to lots of church dances and we were sure the contrast between those and a school dance would be stark. He brushed it off and went to collect his date. After some akward pictures, they were off.
At about 11:30 Drake returned looking tired but happy. He said the night went well, but the dance was not great (as we had warned). They ended up talking outside with some friends and then going for a drive. Finally, they decided to call it an early night. All in all it was a success.
I swear, I am never going to figure out that kid. He is always a mystery! But a handsome man of mystery if I do say so myself!
Friday, October 24, 2014
Saturday, October 4, 2014
General Conference
We got to take these four up to General Conference in the Conference Center. What a wonderful experience to be able to be so close to hear the words of our modern prophet and the apostles. Awesome!
Monday, September 22, 2014
Jacked Up Jeep
Back in March, Theo got a new Jeep as a sort of turning 40, graduating from PT school, every birthday and Christmas forever and ever present. He chose a basic basic model with the intention of fixing it up just the way he wanted. After much deliberation and effort, he took it up to Salt Lake to have some buddies of John G. trick it out. Theo is a pretty happy man!
Monday, September 1, 2014
Cross Country Life
In the fall months, we spend lots and lots of our time and energy on cross-country. The boys run miles and miles and then we drive miles and miles to watch them race. Bowen and Rex are both on the middle school team, and Corbin is a Page High School Sand Devil. Any given weekend you can find us in Tuba City, Kayenta, Phoenix, or Flagstaff.
Wherever we are and whoever we race, I am always impressed by the hard work my boys put in week after week. They are amazing!
Wherever we are and whoever we race, I am always impressed by the hard work my boys put in week after week. They are amazing!
Friday, August 8, 2014
Temporary Long-Term Sub
What a strange combination of words in that title. I am working part-time as a long-term sub in a temporary capacity. Man, that is a mouthful!
Upon leaving my job in Texas, I knew that I wanted to continue my career. The challenge for me was going to be finding a good fit in Page. This is a small town, and job opportunities can be limited. I knew that I didn't want to return to teaching in the classroom, but I also knew that a second income was going to be important with the debt we have from Theo's doctorate program.
I actually put in an application with the school as a sort of back-up. Long story short, I was offered jobs at both the middle school and high school, but I could just not bring myself to accept a position. I had all these feeling of guilt and obligation. I wanted to please the people that had offered me work, but I was so not excited about the prospect of teaching!
I had been exploring the idea of doing consulting work, but wasn't sure how long that could take to get off the ground. It was actually quite a leap of faith to say no to the jobs that were offered. I had no solid backup.
Just before school was about to start, I got a call from the principal of the middle school, an acquaintance of mine. She told me that one of their teachers had resigned just two weeks before school was to start and she was in a panic. After much discussion, we decided I would work as a long term sub, only in the morning while they continued to look for another teacher. The understanding was, I could possibly leave for another job at any time.
I am teaching 8th grade English in the morning and helping a brand new sub (not a certified teacher) who is over the afternoon classes. In the meantime, I am also looking at chances to start my business consulting with schools on integrating technology in the classroom. Sadly, Page is very behind the curve in this regard. I don't know that I will make much progress here in the Page district. I do have a great contact in the Navajo Nation department of Education however. Theo's former college roommate and old friend, Derrik works for the tribe and is working on getting me in contact with the rez schools that could use my services. It is an exciting prospect, and I know things will work out how they should.
Upon leaving my job in Texas, I knew that I wanted to continue my career. The challenge for me was going to be finding a good fit in Page. This is a small town, and job opportunities can be limited. I knew that I didn't want to return to teaching in the classroom, but I also knew that a second income was going to be important with the debt we have from Theo's doctorate program.
I actually put in an application with the school as a sort of back-up. Long story short, I was offered jobs at both the middle school and high school, but I could just not bring myself to accept a position. I had all these feeling of guilt and obligation. I wanted to please the people that had offered me work, but I was so not excited about the prospect of teaching!
I had been exploring the idea of doing consulting work, but wasn't sure how long that could take to get off the ground. It was actually quite a leap of faith to say no to the jobs that were offered. I had no solid backup.
Just before school was about to start, I got a call from the principal of the middle school, an acquaintance of mine. She told me that one of their teachers had resigned just two weeks before school was to start and she was in a panic. After much discussion, we decided I would work as a long term sub, only in the morning while they continued to look for another teacher. The understanding was, I could possibly leave for another job at any time.
I am teaching 8th grade English in the morning and helping a brand new sub (not a certified teacher) who is over the afternoon classes. In the meantime, I am also looking at chances to start my business consulting with schools on integrating technology in the classroom. Sadly, Page is very behind the curve in this regard. I don't know that I will make much progress here in the Page district. I do have a great contact in the Navajo Nation department of Education however. Theo's former college roommate and old friend, Derrik works for the tribe and is working on getting me in contact with the rez schools that could use my services. It is an exciting prospect, and I know things will work out how they should.
Tuesday, August 5, 2014
Begin Again
The first day of school was kind of strange. We are back in Page, so many things are the same, yet new all at once. Drake is a big bad senior and Corbin is a sophomore. Bowen and Rex are together at the middle school. I am curious to see how the boys will re-integrate with their friends from three years ago. A lot changes in those years. They have grown up a lot! This year is full of promise and excitement. Look out Page. Here we come!
Sunday, August 3, 2014
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